The soul that's hidden

Think of this desperate desire to have a relationship as a race with

hurdles. A relationship is the final hurdle, so to get to it you have to

jump over a lot of other hurdles first. If, like a lot of guys, you’re

too focused on the last hurdle, you won’t clear any of the other ones

because you’re not paying enough attention to them. You won’t even

make it to the last one!